So, it's coming up on three years since I miscarried.It was the worst day of my life. I was so happy to be pregnant. My husband and I were out Christmas shopping when I started feeling really sick, and started bleeding alot. Nothing can describe sitting in the ER waiting to get blood test results back andd being taken into the ultrasound room to see the sad look on the nurses face. It's all a blur from there. I know I freaked out so bad they almost had to restrain me..and put medicine in my IV that put me out...I only remember waking up the next morning in bed, hoping it was all a dream. Needless to say, I'm not any closer to getting pregnant than I was after it happened. Being diagnosed with endometriosis last year was a major road block. After an appointment last week I was told that getting pregnant isn't going to happen for me without "help". Then I was put on birth control for a few months to see if it helps me with the pain I'm experiencing because of the endo. Most people think it's only during your period....it's not. I've been so discouraged lately. I always ask myself, why me? I get frusterated and angry when I see people who already have kids that they don't take care of, end up pregnant. People who aren't married, teenagers, people who get pregnant than complain their whole pregnancy about how miserable they are. It's all so unfair. I know, life is unfair and there are people in way more drastic and serious situations that I am..I guess I'm just selfish like that sometimes. God knows my heart, he knows how all I long for is to be a mother. He knows what it means to me to be able to create a life with my amazing husband...a little mixture of him and I that I know would be one amazing creature :)
So, we've decided that after my rounds of birth control..we're going into full force baby mode. We're being sent to the same fertility specialist..and now that they know my disease, they can treat me better as far as medications. We're moving forward with it, we're not going to give up after a few tries like last time. It's going to be our top priority. While it excites me beyond belief..I'm just praying so hard that it works for us. And I ask of our friends and family to join us in praying for a miracle baby :)
To the baby that I carried
But never saw your eyes
Or tell you how much I loved you
Or ever to hear your cries.
You will never be forgotten
The excitement we had for your coming.
When I realized I'd never hold you,
The feeling I had was numbing.
My angel baby is who you are.
My angel baby you'll always be.
Your loving memory will live in my heart
So you will always be right here with me.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Endometriosis Letter
I found this letter written by fellow sufferers of Endometriosis. It says everything so perfectly. I'm so lucky that I have a husband who has been there with me every step of the way through this, has researched and educated himself on it, who is so compassionate when I'm at my worst during that time of the month, I'm sure most husbands would want to knock me out. But after reading a certain part of the letter..he is kinda lucky too..even though my Dr. said I was the worst case he's seen in someone my age (YIKES)..we've never gone months without "sharing a bed"..HAHA.
Not just him, but I have a great support system of family and friends who are always there for me, who have also done research and talk to me about this horrific disease. I even have a really good Dr. But for anyone that doesn't know what this is, or has doubts about stuff I've been going through the past year and a half (This wasn't even all of what I dealt with last year, but thankfully, most of the other stuff is under control), I encourage you to read this letter, and do some research online.
Dear Parents, Partners, Friends, Families, Employers & Doctors:
We have spent the last years of our lives apologizing for being stricken with a disease we did nothing to contract, and we can do it no longer. We are asking - again - for your understanding. We are not responsible for failing to live up to your expectations, the way you think we should. What you seem to fail to realize, is that you are just as much a part of the cycle of the disease as we are, because you are not getting the whole of our person and our capabilities.
We are not "lazy," we are not "whiners," we do not make the pain up "in our heads."
We have Endometriosis.
We know that we look healthy on the outside, and that is sometimes harder to accept than if we exhibited the disease in our every day appearance. What you don't see is what our organs look like on the inside, and you don't see what living with it has done to our emotional well-being.
When we call in sick, it's not because we need a mental health day or to "go shopping." It's because we can't get out of bed from the pain. Do you think we like letting our careers suffer? Would it be easier for you to understand if we said we had cancer and looked the part?
When we get emotional and cry at the seemingly silliest things, or get angry for even less reason, it's not because we are "flaky women." It is because we are taking drug therapies to stall this incurable disease, or perhaps it's because we have come close to the breaking point after dealing day in and day out with the pain for which there is no defined cause or absolute cure.
When we can't have intimate relations with our partners, it is not because we don't love you or want to. It's because we can't. It hurts too much. And we aren't feeling real attractive right now.
When you, our parents, can't understand that since you are healthy, we should be too, but aren't - try harder. We don't understand it either. We need your support more than anyone's.
When we can't go to family gatherings or accept social invitations, it's not because we don't wish to share in your fun. It's because we feel like pariahs. You are all having such a nice time with your children and loved ones - we can't remember the last time we had a nice time, or the last time we were pain-free. We can't have a nice time with our children (some of us); because we were robbed of that chance before we were old enough to even care about having them in the first place. Do you think we need to be reminded of our battle with infertility by watching you and your babies? Or for those of us who were blessed enough to be able to conceive, do you think we want a constant reminder that we never feel well enough to spend enough quality time with our children, or worse - that we might have passed this disease down through our genetics onto our daughters?
When you married us, you didn't know that we meant the "in sickness and in health" part literally, did you? We bet you were counting on at least a 50/50 split of that combination, rather than the 90/10 ratio you got. You are our caretakers, the ones who drive us to and from our doctors, countless surgeries, and emergency room visits. You are the ones who hear us crying in the night and see us break down during the day. You are the ones who wait on us hand and foot after surgery. You are the ones that go for months on end without sharing our beds with us. You are the ones that deal with our infertility right along with us. We strike out at you when we are hurting and angry, and you take it in stride. You are perhaps bigger victims of Endometriosis than even we are. You are appreciated more than words can ever say.
Don't give up on us now.
As a medical professional, we are coming to you for help. We are asking you to do the job you were trained to do and ease our suffering. We do not need you to tell us that we are imagining the excruciating pain we live in, or worse yet, that it is "normal for a woman to hurt." Keep up with your research, find the cause of this disease and better yet, find a cure! Stop taking the easy way out and drugging us into oblivion so that we will quiet down. We want answers and it is your job to provide them. You were the ones that took the oath to heal - why do we have to try to do your job? Do you understand what it means when we tell you that we literally can no longer live a normal life and care for ourselves and our families? We're not drug seeking; we're answer seeking.
Are you not up to the challenge to find the answers?
To those we have called friends all our lives, why have you deserted us when we needed your compassion and understanding the most? Do you see the selfishness of your actions? When we can't get together with you, it's not because we don't like you or we don't care - it's because we are no longer capable of enjoying healthy leisure time. Our minds are consumed with our next doctor's appointments, what surgery we are going to have next, and why we feel so sick all the time. This is not about you - it never was and it never will be. It is about us. Please try to remember what the term "friend" means.
Try to walk one minute in our shoes. We have fought a war for the better part of our years. We are faced daily with physical pains we can't understand and mental anguish we can barely cope with some days. We face a society daily that doesn't even know the word "Endometriosis," much less the ramifications of living with the disease. We have to face uneducated and unsympathetic doctors who tell us "it's all in your head", and "have a hysterectomy, it will cure you", or "get pregnant, it will cure you", when we know that it won't and have been dealing with infertility for the last however many years. Can't you see that?
We have to fight to get medical treatment that insurance companies don't deem necessary, or worse, we deplete our savings because aren't able to obtain proper care unless we pay for it ourselves and travel thousands of miles to the rare specialists that are few and far between. We have to have surgery after surgery and subject ourselves to horrific medications just to be able to get out of bed in the morning. This is not a conscious choice we made, it was the hand we were dealt. It is enough of a war we wage just to try and live with some modicum of normalcy - don't make it harder on us by not seeing the reasons why.
Endometriosis is a disease that affects all of us.
Take the time to learn about it and understand. If you can do that, and you can join us in the battle for a cure, then we can one day return to our old selves and live a normal, pain-free life. We can have healthy relationships with our loved ones. We can stop taking the painkillers that numb our suffering to a degree and become part of the living again.
Please don't judge us and declare that we are all the things we are not - until you have lived with this disease ravaging your mind and body, you cannot speak on it.
Whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger, someone once said. While Endometriosis may not kill our physical body, it tries like hell to kill our spirit. It tries to kill every hope and dream we ever had of doing the things that make us happy. All of us are out here searching for a cure to put an end to the disease...and we are holding our heads high in spite of Endometriosis and fighting it every single day. We are asking you to take part in that battle and work with us beating it. Wouldn't it be nice to have back the daughter, wife, friend or loved one you once knew?
Think about it.
~The Sentiments of Millions of Endometriosis Sufferers Around the World~
http://www.EndoCenter.org
Not just him, but I have a great support system of family and friends who are always there for me, who have also done research and talk to me about this horrific disease. I even have a really good Dr. But for anyone that doesn't know what this is, or has doubts about stuff I've been going through the past year and a half (This wasn't even all of what I dealt with last year, but thankfully, most of the other stuff is under control), I encourage you to read this letter, and do some research online.
Dear Parents, Partners, Friends, Families, Employers & Doctors:
We have spent the last years of our lives apologizing for being stricken with a disease we did nothing to contract, and we can do it no longer. We are asking - again - for your understanding. We are not responsible for failing to live up to your expectations, the way you think we should. What you seem to fail to realize, is that you are just as much a part of the cycle of the disease as we are, because you are not getting the whole of our person and our capabilities.
We are not "lazy," we are not "whiners," we do not make the pain up "in our heads."
We have Endometriosis.
We know that we look healthy on the outside, and that is sometimes harder to accept than if we exhibited the disease in our every day appearance. What you don't see is what our organs look like on the inside, and you don't see what living with it has done to our emotional well-being.
When we call in sick, it's not because we need a mental health day or to "go shopping." It's because we can't get out of bed from the pain. Do you think we like letting our careers suffer? Would it be easier for you to understand if we said we had cancer and looked the part?
When we get emotional and cry at the seemingly silliest things, or get angry for even less reason, it's not because we are "flaky women." It is because we are taking drug therapies to stall this incurable disease, or perhaps it's because we have come close to the breaking point after dealing day in and day out with the pain for which there is no defined cause or absolute cure.
When we can't have intimate relations with our partners, it is not because we don't love you or want to. It's because we can't. It hurts too much. And we aren't feeling real attractive right now.
When you, our parents, can't understand that since you are healthy, we should be too, but aren't - try harder. We don't understand it either. We need your support more than anyone's.
When we can't go to family gatherings or accept social invitations, it's not because we don't wish to share in your fun. It's because we feel like pariahs. You are all having such a nice time with your children and loved ones - we can't remember the last time we had a nice time, or the last time we were pain-free. We can't have a nice time with our children (some of us); because we were robbed of that chance before we were old enough to even care about having them in the first place. Do you think we need to be reminded of our battle with infertility by watching you and your babies? Or for those of us who were blessed enough to be able to conceive, do you think we want a constant reminder that we never feel well enough to spend enough quality time with our children, or worse - that we might have passed this disease down through our genetics onto our daughters?
When you married us, you didn't know that we meant the "in sickness and in health" part literally, did you? We bet you were counting on at least a 50/50 split of that combination, rather than the 90/10 ratio you got. You are our caretakers, the ones who drive us to and from our doctors, countless surgeries, and emergency room visits. You are the ones who hear us crying in the night and see us break down during the day. You are the ones who wait on us hand and foot after surgery. You are the ones that go for months on end without sharing our beds with us. You are the ones that deal with our infertility right along with us. We strike out at you when we are hurting and angry, and you take it in stride. You are perhaps bigger victims of Endometriosis than even we are. You are appreciated more than words can ever say.
Don't give up on us now.
As a medical professional, we are coming to you for help. We are asking you to do the job you were trained to do and ease our suffering. We do not need you to tell us that we are imagining the excruciating pain we live in, or worse yet, that it is "normal for a woman to hurt." Keep up with your research, find the cause of this disease and better yet, find a cure! Stop taking the easy way out and drugging us into oblivion so that we will quiet down. We want answers and it is your job to provide them. You were the ones that took the oath to heal - why do we have to try to do your job? Do you understand what it means when we tell you that we literally can no longer live a normal life and care for ourselves and our families? We're not drug seeking; we're answer seeking.
Are you not up to the challenge to find the answers?
To those we have called friends all our lives, why have you deserted us when we needed your compassion and understanding the most? Do you see the selfishness of your actions? When we can't get together with you, it's not because we don't like you or we don't care - it's because we are no longer capable of enjoying healthy leisure time. Our minds are consumed with our next doctor's appointments, what surgery we are going to have next, and why we feel so sick all the time. This is not about you - it never was and it never will be. It is about us. Please try to remember what the term "friend" means.
Try to walk one minute in our shoes. We have fought a war for the better part of our years. We are faced daily with physical pains we can't understand and mental anguish we can barely cope with some days. We face a society daily that doesn't even know the word "Endometriosis," much less the ramifications of living with the disease. We have to face uneducated and unsympathetic doctors who tell us "it's all in your head", and "have a hysterectomy, it will cure you", or "get pregnant, it will cure you", when we know that it won't and have been dealing with infertility for the last however many years. Can't you see that?
We have to fight to get medical treatment that insurance companies don't deem necessary, or worse, we deplete our savings because aren't able to obtain proper care unless we pay for it ourselves and travel thousands of miles to the rare specialists that are few and far between. We have to have surgery after surgery and subject ourselves to horrific medications just to be able to get out of bed in the morning. This is not a conscious choice we made, it was the hand we were dealt. It is enough of a war we wage just to try and live with some modicum of normalcy - don't make it harder on us by not seeing the reasons why.
Endometriosis is a disease that affects all of us.
Take the time to learn about it and understand. If you can do that, and you can join us in the battle for a cure, then we can one day return to our old selves and live a normal, pain-free life. We can have healthy relationships with our loved ones. We can stop taking the painkillers that numb our suffering to a degree and become part of the living again.
Please don't judge us and declare that we are all the things we are not - until you have lived with this disease ravaging your mind and body, you cannot speak on it.
Whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger, someone once said. While Endometriosis may not kill our physical body, it tries like hell to kill our spirit. It tries to kill every hope and dream we ever had of doing the things that make us happy. All of us are out here searching for a cure to put an end to the disease...and we are holding our heads high in spite of Endometriosis and fighting it every single day. We are asking you to take part in that battle and work with us beating it. Wouldn't it be nice to have back the daughter, wife, friend or loved one you once knew?
Think about it.
~The Sentiments of Millions of Endometriosis Sufferers Around the World~
http://www.EndoCenter.org
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Disneyland, Doctors, and Dancing!
So, we're less than a month from our trip to Disneyland! I'm sooo excited! We'll be going Nov 17, 18, & 19th to celebrate mine and my stepdaughters birthdays. It's been a few years and I'm having withdrawals. We're also getting season passes so hopefully I can talk the hubby into going even more often :) I'm most excited to see "World of Color". I've heard nothing but amazing things about it, and even cheated and watched Disney's High Definition video of it and it was super awesome. Of course, I cried, but hey, that happens alot at Disneyland for some reason. Such great memories of childhood. I'm always just reminded of how special those times were going as a kid, and seeing things for the first time. I truly cherish those times, and need to scrapbook all those old pictures I have and make an album for my mom.
I saw my Fertility Specialist today for the first time since I had the surgery last November. A few things have happened in the recent weeks that I'm convinced were signs that I needed to start being aggressive again. To be fair, when I was seeing this Dr before, they weren't aware that I had endometriosis, and of course neither was I. So now that they know what we're dealing with here, they've come up with a treatment program designed for specifically my case of Endo. It's kind of an aggressive medication, but the chances for conceiving are high and hey at this point, I'm ready. We're ready. David has even expressed to me in the past few days how much he wants a baby, and that's huge for me. Of course we've always agreed we wanted a family together but he never really has just came out and said it like that. Tonight I also had an appointment with my Therapist (Yes, I'm not ashamed. It's starting to change my life so much, and let's be honest here, everyone could use some of it). Anyway, while I was at my appointment tonight, David went to Target and actually looked at baby stuff. Oh how I love that man :)
In closing I just want to say how super obsessed I am with the game "Just Dance" for the Wii. Not only is it super fun, but it's a workout! I'm bugging David to buy me the second version that just came out...some of the songs include "Hey Ya" by Outkast and "Rockafeller Skank" by Fatboy Slim. Watch out people cuz you won't beat my score!
I saw my Fertility Specialist today for the first time since I had the surgery last November. A few things have happened in the recent weeks that I'm convinced were signs that I needed to start being aggressive again. To be fair, when I was seeing this Dr before, they weren't aware that I had endometriosis, and of course neither was I. So now that they know what we're dealing with here, they've come up with a treatment program designed for specifically my case of Endo. It's kind of an aggressive medication, but the chances for conceiving are high and hey at this point, I'm ready. We're ready. David has even expressed to me in the past few days how much he wants a baby, and that's huge for me. Of course we've always agreed we wanted a family together but he never really has just came out and said it like that. Tonight I also had an appointment with my Therapist (Yes, I'm not ashamed. It's starting to change my life so much, and let's be honest here, everyone could use some of it). Anyway, while I was at my appointment tonight, David went to Target and actually looked at baby stuff. Oh how I love that man :)
In closing I just want to say how super obsessed I am with the game "Just Dance" for the Wii. Not only is it super fun, but it's a workout! I'm bugging David to buy me the second version that just came out...some of the songs include "Hey Ya" by Outkast and "Rockafeller Skank" by Fatboy Slim. Watch out people cuz you won't beat my score!
Sunday, October 17, 2010
4 Years!
So, October 1st David and I celebrated our FOUR YEAR anniversary. Yeah, I had to put it in caps, for all the people who didn't think we would last this long :)
We left Friday morning and stopped at Casa De Fruta. I was very excited about it because I've never been. We were greeted by lots of peacocks, which was exciting for me. I love them! We had a really yummy lunch, then walked through all the stores, walked through the corn mazes and the ponds, then continued on our way to the bay. We got to our hotel, chilled for a bit, then started getting ready for our dinner. We ate at the Cliffhouse, which I would recommend anyone to eat there if they're in San Fran and looking for the most romantic place to eat. It's all huge windows that look over the water, and there's caves and cliffs and the waves come crashing up, it's gorgeous! We had a delicious dinner and the best dessert I've ever had. Too many mojitos and wine for me..and we enjoyed some jazz music and dancing. Perfection :)
Saturday we went to the Giants baseball game and had a blast. We were hoping they would actually win that game, because it was huge for them, it would've taken them into post season, but they losts and ended up winning, and obviously to all you baseball fans, they're now in the playoffs to get to the World Series. It was kinda hard for me too root for another team since I'm a diehard Yankees fan..but the things we do for love. We spent the rest of the day bumming around San Fran, went to Pier 39 and ate dinner...and then the trouble began. Food poisoning. The worst. We actually spent all day Sunday in bed (I was the only one sick, not David), and had to book that night in the hotel because I wouldn't have made it home. My babe took good care of me though, even cleaned up my puke..haha. I woke up fine the next day, so we hung out at our favorite place, Haight Ashbury. Then headed over to Ghiradelli Square to go to this fancy little teahouse I've been dying to try, called Crown & Crumpet. It's gorgeous and totally meant for me! So, aside from the sickness, it was a great trip. San Francisco is kinda where we started..so it's a very special place to us. Here's some pics..excuse the last few, that was post food poisoning, no makeup or effort put into my hair.
We left Friday morning and stopped at Casa De Fruta. I was very excited about it because I've never been. We were greeted by lots of peacocks, which was exciting for me. I love them! We had a really yummy lunch, then walked through all the stores, walked through the corn mazes and the ponds, then continued on our way to the bay. We got to our hotel, chilled for a bit, then started getting ready for our dinner. We ate at the Cliffhouse, which I would recommend anyone to eat there if they're in San Fran and looking for the most romantic place to eat. It's all huge windows that look over the water, and there's caves and cliffs and the waves come crashing up, it's gorgeous! We had a delicious dinner and the best dessert I've ever had. Too many mojitos and wine for me..and we enjoyed some jazz music and dancing. Perfection :)
Saturday we went to the Giants baseball game and had a blast. We were hoping they would actually win that game, because it was huge for them, it would've taken them into post season, but they losts and ended up winning, and obviously to all you baseball fans, they're now in the playoffs to get to the World Series. It was kinda hard for me too root for another team since I'm a diehard Yankees fan..but the things we do for love. We spent the rest of the day bumming around San Fran, went to Pier 39 and ate dinner...and then the trouble began. Food poisoning. The worst. We actually spent all day Sunday in bed (I was the only one sick, not David), and had to book that night in the hotel because I wouldn't have made it home. My babe took good care of me though, even cleaned up my puke..haha. I woke up fine the next day, so we hung out at our favorite place, Haight Ashbury. Then headed over to Ghiradelli Square to go to this fancy little teahouse I've been dying to try, called Crown & Crumpet. It's gorgeous and totally meant for me! So, aside from the sickness, it was a great trip. San Francisco is kinda where we started..so it's a very special place to us. Here's some pics..excuse the last few, that was post food poisoning, no makeup or effort put into my hair.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Eat. Pray. Love.
I saw this movie today with my mom. I have to say..I got choked up a few times. Not out of sadness, but out of happiness I think. This woman was saying things to herself that I have said word for word in my head. I think for a good part of my adulthood (not that I'm THAT old)..I've felt lost. Looking for something to define me. I've always thought all I ever wanted was marriage and babies. Well let me clarify..a GOOD marriage..and babies. I don't want the kind of marriage where after you have the kids, that's all you talk about is the kids. I cherish the conversations I have with my husband. Now, babies. Babies has been a struggle for those of you who know me well. Even those of you who don't. I'm not very shy on the topic. You can't be. After you've been married 4 years and turn 25, it kind of becomes a topic everyone asks you about. "So, when are you having a baby?". Boy, you don't know what you're in for after asking me that.
I finally decided a few months ago to just let it all go. It's not in my control, so why have I been acting like it is this whole time? How the heck could having a baby be in my control? There's no way. So, I finally accepted that it will happen if it's supposed to. In the mean time, I want to enjoy life. I want to EAT, PRAY, and LOVE. I consider myself to be a very lucky woman. I have such an amazing husband. We're usually pretty in sync. We share so many of the same interests. We have great conversations. We truly enjoy eachothers company, we really do. Watching this movie, this movie that at times could be devastating, and at other times reminded me so much of myself, made me think so much of myself, and my husband. Ever since I was little, I've wanted to travel. France, Ireland, England, Italy, Germany, Japan, India, Australia...all places I've dreamed of going. I didn't care how I got there, I just knew one day I was going. Well, one day I will. But it won't be alone, it will be with him <3
I still don't know exactly what defines me yet. Or really if anything is supposed to define me. I just know I'm happy being me. Being his wife. Being somewhat of an artist (in my eyes, at least), being happy, being loved, being funny, being well traveled (for now, I think compared to most people my age I've been to alot of great places so far), being an unperfect perfectionist, being..Tiffany Van Ingen :)
I finally decided a few months ago to just let it all go. It's not in my control, so why have I been acting like it is this whole time? How the heck could having a baby be in my control? There's no way. So, I finally accepted that it will happen if it's supposed to. In the mean time, I want to enjoy life. I want to EAT, PRAY, and LOVE. I consider myself to be a very lucky woman. I have such an amazing husband. We're usually pretty in sync. We share so many of the same interests. We have great conversations. We truly enjoy eachothers company, we really do. Watching this movie, this movie that at times could be devastating, and at other times reminded me so much of myself, made me think so much of myself, and my husband. Ever since I was little, I've wanted to travel. France, Ireland, England, Italy, Germany, Japan, India, Australia...all places I've dreamed of going. I didn't care how I got there, I just knew one day I was going. Well, one day I will. But it won't be alone, it will be with him <3
I still don't know exactly what defines me yet. Or really if anything is supposed to define me. I just know I'm happy being me. Being his wife. Being somewhat of an artist (in my eyes, at least), being happy, being loved, being funny, being well traveled (for now, I think compared to most people my age I've been to alot of great places so far), being an unperfect perfectionist, being..Tiffany Van Ingen :)
Saturday, September 11, 2010
September 11
I don't have much to write about today. I feel that complaining about laundry and packing for my trip is trivial compared to what today is. September 11th is still so fresh in my mind, but unfortunately it seems like it's the farthest thing from a lot of people's these days. I will never forget where I was, what I felt, how scared I was, wondering what was happening, why would people do this to us. I also am originally from the East Coast. I was born in Connecticut, and have family there and in New York. A cousin actually who worked in the second building that was hit. An Uncle who worked close to WTC. My husband and I visited the WTC site two years ago, and I'm glad we did. This is an exceprt from a speech President George W. Bush gave, and I've always admired these words:
"Great harm has been done to us. We have suffered great loss. And in our grief and anger we have found our mission and our moment. Freedom and fear are at war. The advance of human freedom -- the great achievement of our time, and the great hope of every time -- now depends on us. Our nation, this generation will lift a dark threat of violence from our people and our future. We will rally the world to this cause by our efforts, by our courage. We will not tire, we will not falter, and we will not fail."
I hope everyone takes time out of their day today to say a prayer for the victims and their families.
NEVER FORGET.
"Great harm has been done to us. We have suffered great loss. And in our grief and anger we have found our mission and our moment. Freedom and fear are at war. The advance of human freedom -- the great achievement of our time, and the great hope of every time -- now depends on us. Our nation, this generation will lift a dark threat of violence from our people and our future. We will rally the world to this cause by our efforts, by our courage. We will not tire, we will not falter, and we will not fail."
I hope everyone takes time out of their day today to say a prayer for the victims and their families.
NEVER FORGET.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Fun Mail & Sore Knees
After a long and busy day spent in Fresno for Dr appointments, and squeezed in a nice dinner and some window shopping with the hubby, I came home and while fumbling around trying to turn my cell phone light on so David could see the keyhole in the door (we always forget to turn the porch light on before we leave), I stumbled on a package on the front steps. I had totally forgotten my mom told me to expect a package from my sweet grandmother. I always get so excited and have to rush inside and open it before I do anything else. It was a package full of books to help with painting. I love it! A few months ago she sent me a bunch of stuff to paint with watercolors. I love painting and I'm positive I get this from my very talented grandma who among her many other hobbies, is an amazing painter. I think the books are just what I need to get me motivated to paint more. After all, my Monday nights just opened up now that the craziness that is The Real Housewives of New Jersey has ended it's season. :) I'm sure David would love a painting for our upcoming wedding anniversary.
I saw my Orthopedist today for another follow up since my knee surgery. He said the scars should lighten up a bit...I sure hope so, they're still pretty dark and not very pretty. Still have to wear the ugly brace, and no bending, twisting, squatting, running (haha like I do that anyway). It's been a month since I had the surgery to repair my torn menescus, and it looks a whole lot better, but there's one area that's still a little swollen. I've learned not to bend too far or squat the hard way..since I've been off the crutches and walking really good now, sometimes it's hard to forget and I'll squat down to pick something up, like I did this morning, and OUCH! Sharp shooting pains, and then it's sore for the whole day. It's definitely a process, still learning my limits I guess. Physical Therapy is a whole other story...I feel like they are there just to torture me LOL :)
I saw my Orthopedist today for another follow up since my knee surgery. He said the scars should lighten up a bit...I sure hope so, they're still pretty dark and not very pretty. Still have to wear the ugly brace, and no bending, twisting, squatting, running (haha like I do that anyway). It's been a month since I had the surgery to repair my torn menescus, and it looks a whole lot better, but there's one area that's still a little swollen. I've learned not to bend too far or squat the hard way..since I've been off the crutches and walking really good now, sometimes it's hard to forget and I'll squat down to pick something up, like I did this morning, and OUCH! Sharp shooting pains, and then it's sore for the whole day. It's definitely a process, still learning my limits I guess. Physical Therapy is a whole other story...I feel like they are there just to torture me LOL :)
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Trying to get motivated!
Okay, I realize it's been soo long since I've posted. I've had a few people send e-mails checking up. It's been a CRAZY six months. Truth is, writing really helps me feel better about things so I don't really know why I haven't done so on here. But I want to! This is me committing to writing a blog at least once a week..yes..once a week! Stay tuned...
Monday, February 22, 2010
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